I gave in to seduction by my ex-husband

Dear Veronika,
My husband left me 3 months ago, this happened by mutual agreement. We were married for 3.5 years and three times we were near separation. We have a daughter who is 2.9 years old. Our family life was filled with fights, abuse and tears. Thi was caused in part by the shortage of money. My ex husband had a difficult time in his life, he was fired from different jobs (he couldn't get along with the management), he got into car accidents (because of inattention and carelessness of the roads). As the reason for entire this served “[bytovukha]”, the shortage of money. Black strip pursued husband, him they expelled from the different works (t to it did not find common language with the authorities), it frequently beat machine (because of inattention and dare-devilishness on the road). He always me warned that if I do not calm down and become less nagging, that he will cheat and leave me. His promise is being carried out. Two months after he left us he started living with another woman. It was then that I began to have this nightmare by the name of "we don't know what we've got until we lose it". I don't live, I exist. Each minute of my life I think about his life with another woman. Several days ago he came over to see our daughter and we ended up having sex. I don't know what I should do next. Did I do the right thing that I gave into my passion?
Here here and began my nightmare by the name “we have - it is not valued, let us lose - by weeping”. Now I do not live, but there exist, each minute I think about that as it with another of [zhivet]! Several days ago it arrived at the daughter, and with it proximity occurred! I do not know, as to now be what to make? And correct whether I did enter that she did yield to passion? It is worthwhile for me to attempt to get him back or is it better to let go? Selina

Dear Selina,
Why do you need this "miracle" in your life? Is a fairy tale of some sort? Each week - a surprise? His car will break again; he will be fired from work; one day his lover will call you. Life full of excitement! Is this what you are after? You miss it in your life? In your situation I see only two omponents - jealousy and laziness. Jealousy - stemming from the fact that he so quickly forgot about you: you've been together for so long and after two weeks of separation he found a replacement. You wanted to prove something to yourself and to him - that you are still desirable as a woman to him. But please remember, every woman who will have sex with him is "desirable" to him. Especially if there are no consequences attached. And about the laziness component, your unwillingness to change your life for the better, to go forward, to build new relationships, is quite evident. Best of luck to you.
Veronika